Sometimes, when I read some of the emails we receive, I wonder if I am from a different century. That would be a century where people introduced themselves before speaking, asking questions, or demanding information. A century where people don’t barge into your manor-house without an invitation!
Now – in fairness, I have to say that most emails I receive are polite and generally well written. Artists on the whole have a good sense of community and most also have a good grasp of language and communication.
That said, there are an alarming few emails which really surprise me and leave me wondering what the sender was thinking. The greatest volume of these are one-liners from people I have never met. A few examples:
Need prices.
Send information.
Need Information about artist websites.
How to order a website?
Where is my article?
I saw your add. Link doesn’t work.
A little rule of thumb: One liners without a “Dear yyy” or “Hi yyy” and a simple introduction are fine and dandy once you have established a relationship with the person you are emailing to. But NEVER send a one-line email as an introduction! Don’t do it with galleries, buyers, customers, or even people or businesses you buy from.
Now – I know that when some artists send us first-time emails at Beautiful Artist Websites, they are thinking of us as a vendor of services -Â a business they might eventually pay money to. Because of that they think it’s OK to not bother with the regular formalities.
That’s a big mistake because as a good business we also choose who we do business with – we want good long-term relationships and we don’t work with people simply because they wave money in our face. More and more modern businesses are similarly values-based because it’s more enjoyable and more profitable.
My other major problem with some of the emails we receive is the number of artists who place us on their email lists without asking permission. It’s a basic and well understood rule of email marketing that you must get permission to do this. Honestly – we LOVE to be included on artists email lists – we want to know about your upcoming shows and exhibitions – but you need to be polite and ask first.
Personally, I could probably live with this, but what concerns me is that artists who add us to their email lists without permission are probably also adding galleries, collectors, decorators, and other artists without their permission. That won’t help you do build relationships because it isn’t polite. It’s also a violation of SPAM regulations.
This is such a simple and obvious topic that this post shouldn’t really be necessary. Avoiding one-liner introductory emails and asking permission before adding someone to your list are simple formalities which will help you build better relationships and better sales.
I am involved in a service right now where you trade teaching English for learning Spanish. I keep wondering as I am teaching, if I should teach them all the abbreviations that are used in language and writing! How r u? W8 4 me. Whattup? 2G2BT. TTYL. I ask myself the question: Are the masses moving to writing in such a way all the time in America?
The hurry hurry hurry, 'get it now' society has produced those emails you are receiving. Being the optimist who I am. I will continue to visualize that people will write in full clear sentences. I observe people wanting to slow things down a bit. I love people and I want them to feel joy, loved and loving, find their soul's true work, and feel fulfilled. It is hard to do this when you are so over scheduled you can't take a single moment to just…be.
Is it worth responding to those people personally and letting them know? I am not sure. If they are in too much of a hurry to write you "Dear Daniel," will they be in too much of a hurry to ingest your message?
Have a magnificent day!
Another good article! I think Christine has some very good points … so many people are in a hurry today. And Daniel, I apologize if I have sent you an email invitation to one of my exhibits in the past, without previously asking beforehand if that would be okay. I am in the process of getting my email address list organized with a new email list manager and marketing email campaign service. I cannot wait!
Have a great weekend!
Thanks Christine and Kelly for your comments – I have not been back to this post for a little while. And Kelly – no problem – I am happy to hear about your exhibits so please keep them coming. I was making a general point 🙂
Always be polite you never know how useful a contact just might be…yesterday's letter is today's email…etc